And again these mornings came. Sleep in my eyes which look with full hopes towards the clock that still there would be some time more for which I could sleep. When you heartily want something the whole universe conspires to make it happen. Yes my eyes could find 15 more min to feel the final minutes of the sleep. After 5 min when I open my eyes I could only find I am already late by 15 minutes. I Jump from the bed rush to the bathroom as if the house is on fire. Feeling proud that yes I could get ready in just 5 min finds that oh god! What pieces of clothes are they lying on the sofa!. Has the room service guy left the cleaning cloth again in my room? But in the end finds that I still have to iron the uniform. During the entire hurry and rush I vouch myself from tomorrow I will get up well before. With this oath I leave my room run towards the office….OH GOD! why you allowed the morning shifts to exist in your otherwise beautiful world..
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Friday, December 2, 2011
EXPECTATIONS
Expectation is no alien word for any human because it is a part our life as much as a heart is. The only difference present is heart has a physical form but expectation has no physical form but it exist and its presence can be felt by self as well as others as it happens for any physical form.
But the question is what is the significance that expectation adds to one's life.
Expectation lies in almost evrey action of human being from cradle to grave. As a child learns to speak, stand walk there is an expectation behind he observes others speaking standing walking and tries to do it himslef with an innocent expectation that he will also be able to behave like them.
Expectation is the driving force for any effort that we make. If expectation were not there even effort would not have been there. We make effort because we expect for the result or we can say that effort are made towards an expectation. A father expects his child to gain respect in the society, he makes efforts to provide him the best quality education which will earn him manners, knowledge and finally a status. He has this expectation so he makes sacrifices for his child, if expectation was not there he would have fulfilled a mere formality by providing poor quality education and giving priority to his current comforts and needs.
But everything benefits if it is kept within limits. Anything unbound can eventually lead to unhappines and sorrow. Like a medicine if taken withing proper doses will cure you but if doses are voilated it can lead to a trouble similar is with expectations. for example expectation are must to keep a relationship intact but if these expectations become overexpectations then they can be a threat to the relationship. If a father starts to overexpect from his child then that expectation can be a burden over the child.
But the question is what is the significance that expectation adds to one's life.
Expectation lies in almost evrey action of human being from cradle to grave. As a child learns to speak, stand walk there is an expectation behind he observes others speaking standing walking and tries to do it himslef with an innocent expectation that he will also be able to behave like them.
Expectation is the driving force for any effort that we make. If expectation were not there even effort would not have been there. We make effort because we expect for the result or we can say that effort are made towards an expectation. A father expects his child to gain respect in the society, he makes efforts to provide him the best quality education which will earn him manners, knowledge and finally a status. He has this expectation so he makes sacrifices for his child, if expectation was not there he would have fulfilled a mere formality by providing poor quality education and giving priority to his current comforts and needs.
But everything benefits if it is kept within limits. Anything unbound can eventually lead to unhappines and sorrow. Like a medicine if taken withing proper doses will cure you but if doses are voilated it can lead to a trouble similar is with expectations. for example expectation are must to keep a relationship intact but if these expectations become overexpectations then they can be a threat to the relationship. If a father starts to overexpect from his child then that expectation can be a burden over the child.
Therefore one should learn to keep a balance between the expectations and the realities. It is good to expect but you should realize the illeffects of these expectations. Keep your expectations within limits so that they dont become a trouble or a unhappiness for others who are with you.Expectations should be the direction for you to proceed but the efforts need to be made otherwise you will achieve only unhappiness.
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